Why an adulterous woman deserves condemnation and an indecent woman deserves congratulations?

Eso texto en español (sin fotos e peliculas de putaría, en lo Concrete Paradise): ¿Por qué una mujer adúltera merece la condenación y una mujer indecente merece las felicitaciones?, http://avezdoshomens2.wordpress.com/2012/06/22/mujer-condenacion-felicitaciones//

Eso texto en español (con fotos e peliculas de putaría, en lo Paraíso Tangible): ¿Por qué una mujer adúltera merece la condenación y una mujer indecente merece las felicitaciones?, http://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com.br/2012/06/por-que-mujer-adultera-merece-la.html

This text in English (without sex pics and movies, at Concrete Paradise): Why an adulterous woman deserves condemnation and an indecent woman deserves congratulations?, http://avezdoshomens2.wordpress.com/2012/06/22/woman-condemnation-congratulations/

This text in English (with sex pics and movies, at Paraíso Tangible): Why an adulterous woman deserves condemnation and an indecent woman deserves congratulations?, http://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com.br/2012/06/why-adulterous-woman-deserves.html

Texto original em português (sem fotos e vídeos de putaria, no A Vez das Mulheres de Verdade): Por que mulher adúltera merece condenação e mulher safada merece parabéns?, http://avezdasmulheres2.wordpress.com/2012/08/24/mulher-adultera-condenacao-mulher-safada-parabens

Texto original em português (com fotos e vídeos de putaria, no A Vez dos Homens que Prestam): Por que mulher adúltera merece condenação e mulher safada merece parabéns?, http://avezdoshomens.blogspot.com.br/2012/06/por-que-mulher-adultera-merece.html

Abigail Pereira Aranha

Some readers (especially women) should find it's a contradiction of mine to defend free bitching and open marriage, but to condemn the bitches, single mothers, cheating wives. I'll explain why it's not.

The traditional marriage requires sexual exclusivity, a life together, a partnership. If both lived tied one to another, it already would be a problem. And when one of the two breaks that covenant? It's a betrayal. Not because of sex with someone else, but because of the villainy. How so?

Sex for the man of character is in the red ligth district or at least at dating. Months until she have some interest in him and he set up the courage to ask her for a date (even when she likes the boy too). The brothers and her parents near of asking for his police records before allowing him to date her, with the project they will marry. Depending on the father, about six months to there. Until not long ago, to him only see the girl's shoulders after the wedding.

After the wedding, the boy's life with his loved girl will become increasingly boring. Until he gets increasingly more willing to kill her or die. If she was beautiful of face and body, she gets ugly. If she has always been ugly, she gets worse. Fatter, more wrinkled, more messed up. The defects that were tolerable in dating, now he can not stand. Sex is increasingly rare and worse. The "darling" is also increasingly rare. Anything that does not bother balanced people can be cause of a fight. The merchandise is defective and was never guaranteed. Get rid of the wife will be a nuisance, besides being expensive.

The woman is not a misshapen pig, but the relationship the honey is over and reached in the moon. Then, the man discovers that his wife is fucking with another man. Maybe the witch is not doing sex strike with him for months (or two years). Maybe she is not wanting to take revenge of when he was making a snack with the friendly female co-worker after work. But it is a villainy. Because for the other man, there were no months of future father-in-law annoying before he can kiss the girl alone. For the other man, there were no brother of his girl surveilling them. And the other guy got in weeks, days or maybe hours exactly what he (the husband) wanted since he was interested in the woman: fuck with the daughter of her mother. And it is likely that the same family who treated the man like a leper always knew everything. Now, the other pays up to the motel. The husband will pay a share of divorce if he wants to leave his wife. Got it? Betrayal is not because of the sex, is because of the lack of character. And it's not only with an ex-prostitute, a single mother, a crazy woman. Often it is with a serious woman, or rather, a fervent Christian woman, who before her husband thought the only other man that was going to have in the wedding was Our Lord Jesus Christ.

For good men, there is no easy sex. For good men, there is not 15 year old girl, guitar-shaped body, wanting to lose virginity hidden from the father (unless he is already married to another woman). For good men, there is not two "ordinary" girls going to bed together with him (unless he pays the Coca Cola of these two in the club). For good men, there is neither married woman making madness to meet him and take some stick hidden of the rude and violent husband. It's not that he rejects, is a chance that does not appear. The woman who has sex with anyone she wants never wants with him.

Oh, I had forgotten. And the woman who was a bitch or a prostitute (yeah, sex worker) when she was young and after she wants to get married, it means that she will cheat her husband too? Usually not. But does she accept the open marriage? She told her boyfriend her past? She is jealous? People, a woman experience a load of logs in youth is not a negative point for her character, what scores against her is the falsehood. Indeed, the former horny woman says that? What the most wanton women make about 30 or 40 is to marry a good sucker (preferably of goods), usually together with children from previous relationships who hardly see their fathers, attend a church and hide the past looking like those old ladies who have not experienced two dicks in life. To retire the decaying body that scoundrels do not want to and can not help cut the line of competence to ensure a professional career. And sensuality and sexuality that she had with the age at which her husband was making himself a serious man, perhaps he was still a virgin, is gone. She will tell her husband and for those who know of her past about how she was treated as an object by scoundrels and how she is ashamed of photos she took nude or amateur (or professional) sex movies.

It is not true that who loves blocks. Love is one willing the good of other, not necessarily, in the case of man and woman, wanting to start a family. And as a man and a woman unmarried who enjoy the companionship and the joy of each other can go to a barbecue, walk in the park, they can well enter the car in the garage (with two or three cars, it gets better, hehehehe).

And just because they do not want marriage, does not mean they do not respect each other or like each other so much. It is precisely because they do not want to take away the freedom of one another.

And just because the maiden will be with a cock today and another two at a time tomorrow, it does not mean that the relationship is superficial. Heck, they can talk a little between one and another until the mast of the kitten up again, until a sad thing that one is going and the other give the shoulder to cry a little. They can talk something happy too, everybody naked. Hehehehe.

Several partners increases the risk of venereal disease how much as out with the car increases the risk of accident. So, with prudence (and condoms), not worth the argument of AIDS, including because it's coming to married women who have not had three men in my life (and not always the man took bitch out there). So, for a life of luxury you need to have more courage. No courage to challenge syphilis, gonorrhea, but have more courage than the cowardly mob who seek a marriage for fear of disease and Hell.

And women live in hooker or open marriage is not a lack of morals. It's just worry about having more than a lack of cocks to hide who knows what lack of moral or intellectual virtues. It's having qualities that sometimes the cheating wife doesn't have and makes everyone believe that she has.

For a woman, sex with more than one man (at one time or not) taking a conventional marriage is hypocrisy, lying, hanky-panky. Having an open marriage or sex without commitment (of a stable relationship), is sincerity with herself and with others, respect for others, fun (with prudence) and courage to a lifestyle that was never accepted any time. Yeah, against God, against chastity and against mediocrity.

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Open marriage

First, what is the open marriage, for those who do not know. I'll copy a section of Wikipedia.

Open marriage typically refers to a marriage in which the partners agree that each may engage in extramarital sexual relationships, without this being regarded as infidelity. There are many different styles of open marriage, with the partners having varying levels of input on their spouse's activities.

History of the Term

The origins of the term open marriage remain obscure. Researchers in the 1960s used the term open marriage to describe individual freedom in choosing marriage partners. Closed marriage meant individuals had to marry someone based on social prohibitions and social prescriptions. Open marriage meant individuals could choose to marry someone based on personal preferences.

Nena O'Neill and George O'Neill changed the meaning of the term with the 1972 publication of their book Open Marriage, which sold over 1.5 million copies. The O'Neills conceived open marriage as one in which each partner has room for personal growth and can develop outside friendships. Most chapters in the book dealt with non-controversial approaches to revitalizing marriage in areas of trust, role flexibility, communication, identity, and equality. Chapter 16, entitled "Love Without Jealousy", devoted 20 pages to the proposition that an open marriage could include some forms of sexuality with other partners. These concepts entered the cultural consciousness and the term "open marriage" became a synonym for sexually non-monogamous marriage, much to the regret of the O'Neills. In the 1977 publication of The Marriage Premise, Nena O'Neill advocated sexual fidelity in the chapter of that name. By then however, the concept of open marriage as sexually non-monogamous marriage had gained a life of its own.

Today, with many committed couples not seeking formal marriage, the term is frequently generalized to 'open relationship' or 'responsible non-monogamy'.

Relationship maintenance

The impact of open marriage on relationships varies across couples. Some couples report high levels of marital satisfaction and have long-lasting open marriages. Other couples drop out of the open marriage lifestyle and return to sexual monogamy. These couples may continue to believe open marriage is a valid lifestyle, just not for them. Still, other couples experience serious problems and claim open marriage contributed to their divorces. All couples in open marriages may therefore want to pay attention to their relationship maintenance behaviors.

Ground rules

Couples involved in open marriages or relationships typically adopt a set of ground rules to guide their activities. Ground rules in relationships allow partners to coordinate their behaviors so they achieve shared goals with fewer conflicts. Some ground rules are universal in the sense they apply to virtually all relationships in a particular culture. Other ground rules apply to specific kinds of relationships, such as friendships or marriages. Still other ground rules are designed to manage romantic rivalry and jealousy. The ground rules adopted by sexually monogamous couples tend to prohibit behaviors that are viewed as acts of infidelity. The ground rules adopted by sexually open couples tend to prohibit behaviors that provoke jealousy. Partners may change the ground rules of their relationships over time. One example of a changing ground rule includes where a married couple decides to separate. Without divorcing, they are still legally married. However, they may choose to cohabitate or have sex with other persons, thus contributing to voluntary or involuntary agreement to have an open relationship.

Open marriage styles

Couples in open marriages may prefer different kinds of extramarital relationships. Couples who prefer extramarital relationships emphasizing love and emotional involvement have a polyamorous style of open marriage. Couples who prefer extramarital relationships emphasizing sexual gratification and recreational friendships have a swinging style of open marriage. These distinctions may depend on psychological factors such as sociosexuality and may contribute to the formation of separate Polyamory and Swinging communities. Despite their distinctions, however, all open marriages share common issues: the lack of social acceptance, the need to maintain the health of their relationship and avoid neglect, and the need to manage jealous rivalry. Many couples have rules such as: No emotional attachment, must use protection, never in 'our bed/home', no illegitimate children, and/or must or must not know who the other person is, and so on. Some open marriages are one sided as well. One partner who may need more sexual gratification than the other is free to seek it out where he/she sees fit, all while maintaining a functional emotional relationship with their full-time partner.

Open marriage jealousy

Couples in open marriage expose themselves to situations that can potentially provoke jealousy. Most couples in open marriages report experiencing jealousy at some point during their marriage.^{[citation needed]} Ground rules are one way to help manage jealousy in open relationships. However, ground rules may not be sufficient.^{[citation needed]} Couples in open marriages may benefit from a general understanding of jealousy and how to cope with it.^{[citation needed]}

Open marriage acceptance

Surveys show large majorities of people disapprove of extramarital sexual activity. A few studies show people specifically disapprove of open marriages. Critics have put forward moral, medical, and psychological objections to open marriages. The lack of social acceptance places pressure on couples to hide their open marriages from family, friends, and colleagues. This may limit their social support network.

Legal issues

The practice of extramarital sex is often illegal in jurisdictions where adultery is illegal, regardless of whether the partner(s) has given their consent. Open marriage is not the same thing as polygamy, where sexual relationships are not necessarily contemplated, but rather one cannot have more than one simultaneous spouse, which is said to protect individual and marital property rights.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_marriage

Why I am completely in favor of open marriage? Firstly, we men and women are not castrated. You will feel attraction only to your wife or your husband? So you are not man or woman, you are a castrated with a marital obligation, or try to be one. And who demands you loyalty in sex also requires you not to have your friends, your careers, your amusements, if you don't take care don't let you even leave your house except to work, to church or to visit your mother-in-law.

And if you are against and see why you are against, will find a lot of junk you have in your head, like the moral of the lack of sex or the machismo of rowdy bar goer.

You will ask: are you married? I'm not. And when you are married you think will get to leave your husbands to have sex with another woman cool? I wil, because love is wanting to see well. And who troubles if her husband fucks nice with a beautiful woman is a woman who has not content to keep a man without using a pussy or a child.

Some will ask: if is not to have exclusivity, to marry for what? Marriage is a very serious thing to be based only on sex. A couple has to have something to take pleasure of being with each other, one can not isolate the other in the world, and the two can not be together just because of an obligation and because one has only the other to make sex in peace.

Open marriage is for couples who are clever and have content. It is for those who do not need to use sex to hold someone of the opposite sex.

Some day I will write about jealousy. Kisses.

Abigail Pereira Aranha

Original in Portuguese: "Casamento aberto", at http://avezdasmulheres.wordpress.com/2010/09/14/casamento-aberto/.