Chastity is hatred against men - part 4

Abigail Pereira Aranha

Presenting sex work as demeaning only can make sense when it's understood that satisfying an honest median man's heterosexuality is demeaning. Attacking prostitution, pornography or sensuality saying it exists in order to satisfy men only can make sense when it's understood that pleasing honest median men is demeaning.

Astaroth Realista In short: to the prominent men, everything; to the median ones, regulations.

Diogo Aires Attacking sensuality can also come from people who do not fit into the aesthetic standards or refuse to change to them. Putting the blame on an aesthetic without having even gone in search of it. Accepting conformism.

Abigail Pereira Aranha The comment by the fellow +Astaroth Realista reminded me of something I was going to write and I forgot. The comment by the friend +Diogo Aires was very good, but two add-ons still can be made.

1) These women can still create an inverted scale where they are in a higher position. This does not happen only in the most bizarre feminism.

2) Exactly because of the social disregard for masculine heterosexuality, the physically mediocre woman can be overvalued in relation to the most showy woman even in the conservative Christian milieu. An example of an ugly woman in the Bible: Leah (Gen. 29:17). An example of a beautiful woman: Bathsheba (2 Sam. 11:2, 3). It is certain that Rachel, Leah's sister, was also beautiful. But when the beauty of a woman is highlighted in the Bible, either this is to highlight her also as a female servant of God, or this beauty is shown as a stumbling block.

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Note 02

Even the Bible shows that sex has always been available to men with status. If they have availability of erotic-pornographic arts, prostitutes and concubines while the sexuality of men in general or their contact itself with a median woman are very restricted, the sexual pleasure for a man is also a matter of privilege. Or rather, heterosexuality was despicable in all men, but the social prominence, which was once achieved by the war and thereafter could be achieved by business, was a kind of license for a man to commit heterosexuality as he could commit murder, idolatry, or deviance of public money.

Why did commercial pornography, as we know it, begin and concentrate itself on the United States and some countries in the developed Europe, and that was about 50 years ago? It was not only because of the technological development of these places, even if such development was essential for the pornographic industry to exist. Commercial pornography started and developed in these places, especially in the United States, for the same reasons as any business that was successful: people who have something to sell and they find a lot of people who want and can buy. It was not exactly because of the free-market capitalism, it was because of an acceptable level of quality of life even for the poors. Given that male heterosexuality was despised, pornography was treated as something for immature boys, censored or even prohibited by law. Oh, and the censorship of sex plus everyday contempt for the typical straight man created more desire for pornography, which was in the beginning even an aspect of sociopolitical rebellion for some leftist militants. But pornography survived not only because we've always had thousands of straight boys born every day, it was also because the profit was worthwhile.

Diogo Aires And what happens to something repressed: it becomes underground and people are "ashamed" to admit that they like and practice. Even if there was no pornography itself, there was sensuality and eroticism in other genres like terror. An example is the "Slasher Halloween", in which Jamie Lee Curtis appears half-naked.

Abigail Pereira Aranha +Diogo Aires, kitten, you are thinking like someone who has already taken this scenario ready. You still did not understand and I'll give you some questions to think or to research. Why was commercial pornography started in the 1960s, 1970s in the United States and not in Brazil? Why was it not in the United States in the 1930s? Why was it not in India, or in Saudi Arabia, or in Venezuela? Have you seen what was considered pornography in the late nineteenth century, early twentieth century?

Abigail Pereira Aranha (...) High-ranking men simply escape general repression because of the position they are in. And it is true that a group that transgresses rules that are imposed on the general population also demonstrates power. We do not have exactly an anti-sexual political system. What we have is an anti-sexual culture, which was even worse before Capitalism. And no man benefits from this, except for a few who make money from criminal networks of prostitution, for example. Who profits more from male sexual repression and who most disturbs personally men's sex lives is the typical woman or the woman even below mediocrity. Women who are sexually liberal or who are just sex workers to pay their bills do not gain much hostility from rich men or male politicians, the danger, even to physical integrity, comes almost entirely from other women, especially married women. The men who act in favor of the sexual repression are who we call manginas, who by definition think with a woman's head.

That is the big problem. The whole thing is not the work of a mafia, a political party, or even a religion. There is not a group of people or even a political system which if it is deposed, the whole thing ends. That is one aspect of the gynocentric culture. It's like a computer virus, so the criminalization of prostitution, for example, is just the infected machine doing nonsense.

Abigail Pereira Aranha Explaining better to friends: why does not the Arab countries cinema use the eroticism that was quoted here? If Mia Khalifa had not gone out from Lebanon or Sunny Leone from India, would they have been porn stars? What feasibility pornography as we know would have in the Middle East? Are Middle East median men less repressed than those here?

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Note 03

I was exactly writing this text when I listen on the radio to the Tina Turner's song "Private Dancer", which represents a first-person narrative by a stripper about herself and her work. The music reminded me one more thing I forgot to say: the heterosexuality of men is so despised, and not just that of average men, that satisfying it is seen as rubbish, as a general rule, among the female sex workers themselves.

	Questo testo in italiano senza film di dissolutezza in Men of Worth Newspaper: "La castità è odio contro gli uomini - parte 4", http://avezdoshomens2.over-blog.com/2017/02/la-castita-e-odio-contro-gli-uomini-parte-4.html.
	Questo testo in italiano con film di dissolutezza in Periódico de Los Hombres de Valía: "La castità è odio contro gli uomini - parte 4", https://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com/2017/02/la-castita-e-odio-contro-gli-uomini.html.
	Ce texte en français sans films de libertinage au Men of Worth Newspaper: "Chasteté est haine contre les hommes - partie 4", http://avezdoshomens2.over-blog.com/2017/02/chastete-est-haine-contre-les-hommes-partie-4.html.
	Ce texte en français avec films de libertinage au Periódico de Los Hombres de Valía: "Chasteté est haine contre les hommes - partie 4", https://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com/2017/02/chastete-est-haine-contre-les-hommes.html.
	Eso texto en español sin películas de putaría en Men of Worth Newspaper: "La castidad es odio contra los hombres - parte 4", http://avezdoshomens2.over-blog.com/2017/02/la-castidad-es-odio-contra-los-hombres-parte-4.html.
	Eso texto en español con películas de putaría en Periódico de Los Hombres de Valía: "La castidad es odio contra los hombres - parte 4", https://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com/2017/02/la-castidad-es-odio-contra-los-hombres.html.
	This text in English without licentiousness movies at Men of Worth Newspaper: "Chastity is hatred against men - part 4", http://avezdoshomens2.over-blog.com/2017/02/chastity-is-hatred-against-men-part-4.html.
	This text in English with licentiousness movies at Periódico de Los Hombres de Valía: "Chastity is hatred against men - part 4", https://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com/2017/02/chastity-is-hatred-against-men-part-4.html.
	Texto original em português sem filmes de putaria no A Vez das Mulheres de Verdade: "Castidade é ódio aos homens - parte 4", http://avezdasmulheres.over-blog.com/2017/02/castidade-e-odio-aos-homens-parte-4.html.
	Texto original em português com filmes de putaria no A Vez dos Homens que Prestam: "Castidade é ódio aos homens - parte 4", https://avezdoshomens.blogspot.com/2017/02/castidade-e-odio-aos-homens-parte-4.html.