In comparison to immorality within chastity or family, what is pornography?

Abigail Pereira Aranha

Conventional marriage, sexual "purity", family and religion do not need enemies to collapse. The valuation of the chastity, the family and the elderly in themselves would be, at best, to confuse an image itself and what it depicts, even if these were as praiseworthy as say the "moralists".

How many prejudice there is in imagining a family as a narrow-minded rough father, a fat puritan mother, some boring uncles, frustrated illiterate grandparents and intellectually mediocre siblings and cousins? In large families, is the stupidity what is accumulated, not the wisdom. Small cities have little economic relevance, a poor cultural life and nitpicking about someone else's life because, in part, of a traditionalist worldview. Not only the families tend to reproduce internally the overall mediocrity, this overall mediocrity is, at same time, the families' mediocrity. It's not casual that notable individuals, or some anonymous persons who achieved to improve intellectually and professionally, needed to have some privacy outside the native land, usually in large cities or developed foreign countries.

Chastity is, somehow, the aversion to sex or to sexual pleasure of others. From a woman, it's always contempt to men or discomfort seeing someone else's pleasure in a comprehensive sense. From a man, it's a desire to spread his personal unhappiness, sexual and overall. Chastity is mockery and offense against the men and the male heterosexuality, because the chaste woman assumes she is better because she doesn't have sex with AVERAGE men. Well, I am assuming that a chaste woman is attractive. A woman who is unpleasant, not only ugly, can not be chaste. She is obsessed with rape, sexual harassment and sexual themes, whether she is a Feminist, whether she is a puritan, because what she wants is a good fuck.

Putting this all together: we have that traditional values are conflicts mind versus experience when the majority of the old people we know are illiterate stupids, but we believe that elderly represent wisdom; when we know about animosity and even fistfights within families, but we believe in familiar ties; when we know about men who married because of lack of sexual options or even death threats by his father-in-law, but we do not imagine love between man and woman if not conventional marriage; when sexually transmitted diseases are caught by married non-adulterer couples and have not-sexual ways of dissemination, but we equal them to sex outside marriage. More than this, these traditional values are a moral scarcity, a illiteracy-based moral system and, as consequence, a corrupted moral. It's not casual that Moses' Law sentenced sex and insubordination to fathers to death (respectively, Dt 22: 13 - 24 and 21: 18 - 21). If there were intrinsic merits in chastity, conventional marriage and family, they could be defended because of these merits.

We can see how traditional values are stupid when provincial persons thank the physical, intellectual and psychologic abuse they suffered by their parents for being righteous citizens. We can see it also in the defense of the criminalization of pornography and prostitution, mentioning women under degrading treatment and sexual exploitation, but only refering to cases of violence against prostitutes, exactly due to State omission and legal helplessness, to capitalize them into an anti-orgasm fight. When someone, usually a woman, says that a porn model or a prostitute is other man's daughter or sister, has dreams, etc, this anti-sex-work person is not arguing a porn fan's or a prostitute costumer's thought, he or she is exposing his / her own thought of sex as degradation of women, at same time trying to depict this average and not frigid man as despicable.

The recent case of Sofi Goldfinger illustrate it like few ones could. Where is the mother's love or the family that will be always by your side when her parents rejected her because she became a porn actress? She relates that her mother once held her for her father to beat her. This is coward even in street fights! Less than three months before this case, an adolescent girl's father here in Brazil forced her to record a video reading an apologizing letter before she was beaten, just because she appeared in a video having sex in a party. Some Conservative Christians commented in Facebook saying that if she is residing in her father's house, he makes the rules (http://avezdoshomens.blogspot.com/2015/09/direita-crista-acabou-parte-2.html). Assuming these Conservative Christians are right, and they would say the same if it was a husband spanking his wife and spreading it in the internet, what about if the daughter already left her parent's home?

Two other happenings make this case illustrative: 1) the previous month, the same Russia's government blocked Pornhub nationwide ("Media Watchdog Blocks Access to Russian PornHub, 10 More Adult Sites", The Moscow Times, September 08, 2015, http://www.themoscowtimes.com/article/529636.html); 2) among related articles at original, dated two days earlier, "I've won an EU deal to keep filters for porn, says [United Kingdom Prime Minister David] Cameron: New law will help block vile images" (October 27, 2015, http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3292677/Blow-Cameron-Brussels-rules-new-porn-filters-illegal-Fury-EU-outlaw-opt-protects-children.html). Both governments said they act for the children safety. Thus, it's noble to create annoyances for internet users in an entire nation only to be a hired hoodlum for unpleasant cows, satisfying their envy and disconcertedness because of attractive women and avoiding them to have to talk about sex to their children (as if they cared about their undesired infants).

Ah, Sofi Goldfinger only could sue her parents because porn and sex outside marriage are not crime or "death-deserving" as they would be in a "decent" land. Saying Christianity gave us our moral and legal basis is a boasting of frigid devout countrywomen. If Feminism cared about ordinary women and women heterosexual sexual freedom, this movement would give support to her and would have here something to annihilate Christianity in matter of weeks.

When Brazilian mainstream newspapers bring foreigner news, they usually only translate foreigner articles. Last years, our press found out it can profit more pleasing our leftist government and the leftist militancy in exchange of quietude and official advertising money than with journalism. Yet, the newspaper Extra, from Rio de Janeiro, poorly made a translation of Daily Mail's article, but omitted that paragraph about Sofi Goldfinger saying her parents are narrow-minded and are caring only about their public image. It caught my attention. I will comment more about it in other text.

Appendix

"Porn star sues her Russian parents after they changed the locks at their home when they found out about her career", Daily Mail, October 29, 2015. Available at http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3295763/Porn-star-sues-Russian-parents-changed-locks-home-career.html.

Porn star sues her Russian parents after they changed the locks at their home when they found out about her career

*.Parents of Vladislava Zatyagalova she had left home to be choreographer

*.Allegedly disowned her after finding out she was actually working in porn

*.It is claimed they refused to let her back inside house when she returned

*.20-year-old actress has complained topolice that parents beat her in past

By Mark Duell for MailOnline

Published: 15:36 EST, 29 October 2015| Updated: 17:43 EST, 29 October 2015

Porn star: Vladislava Zatyagalova's parents believed she had left their home to become a choreographer

A porn star is suing her parents after they allegedly disowned her and changed the locks on the family home when they found out about her career.

Vladislava Zatyagalova's parents believed she had left their home to become a choreographer.

But they are said to have disowned their 20-year-old daughter after finding out she was actually working in the adult film industry.

And they allegedly refused to let her back inside their house in Chelyabinsk, Russia, when she returned - not even to collect her belongings.

Miss Zatyagalova, who appears on screen as Sofi Goldfinger, then filed a complaint with police over claims her parents had beaten her in the past - and even said she had suffered internal injuries when her mother sat on her.

The actress, who has starred in dozens of adult films, alleged that her parents ‘caused a lot of physical and mental harm’, adding: ‘My father hit me, while my mother held me.’

Miss Zatyagalova called them 'narrow-minded' over their condemnation of her porn career and said they were only concerned about image.

She also claimed that her parents were violent towards her in private, but still wanted to present an image of the perfect family with a model daughter to neighbours and relatives.

Her parents will now only speak to her through their lawyer Andrey Temnikov and have threatened to sue her over her claims which they say are made up, according to reports.

Actress: Miss Zatyagalova appears on screen as Sofi Goldfinger and has starred in dozens of adult films

On screen: The Russian actress (pictured) alleged that her parents ‘caused a lot of physical and mental harm’

	Questo testo in italiano senza film di dissolutezza in Men of Worth Newspaper: "Rispetto all'immoralità all'interno della castità o della famiglia, che cosa è la pornografia?", http://avezdoshomens2.over-blog.com/2015/11/immoralita-castita-famiglia.html
	Questo testo in italiano con film di dissolutezza in Periódico de Los Hombres de Valía / Paraíso Tangible: "Rispetto all'immoralità all'interno della castità o della famiglia, che cosa è la pornografia?", http://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com/2015/11/rispetto-allimmoralita-allinterno-della.html
	Ce texte en français sans vidéo de libertinage au Men of Worth Newspaper: "En comparaison à l'immoralité au sein de la chasteté ou de la famille, ce qui est de la pornographie?", http://avezdoshomens2.over-blog.com/2015/11/immoralite-chastete-famille.html
	Ce texte en français avec vidéo de libertinage au Periódico de Los Hombres de Valía / Paraíso Tangible: "En comparaison à l'immoralité au sein de la chasteté ou de la famille, ce qui est de la pornographie?", http://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com/2015/11/en-comparaison-limmoralite-au-sein-de.html
	Eso texto en español sin video de putaría en Men of Worth Newspaper: "En comparación con la inmoralidad dentro de la castidad o de la familia, ¿qué es la pornografía?", http://avezdoshomens2.over-blog.com/2015/11/inmoralidad-castidad-familia.html
	Eso texto en español con video de putaría en Periódico de Los Hombres de Valía / Paraíso Tangible: "En comparación con la inmoralidad dentro de la castidad o de la familia, ¿qué es la pornografía?", http://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com/2015/11/en-comparacion-con-la-inmoralidad.html
	This text in English without licentiousness video at Men of Worth Newspaper: "In comparison to immorality within chastity or family, what is pornography?", http://avezdoshomens2.over-blog.com/2015/11/immorality-chastity-family.html
	This text in English with licentiousness video at Periódico de Los Hombres de Valía / Paraíso Tangible: "In comparison to immorality within chastity or family, what is pornography?", http://avezdoshomens2.blogspot.com/2015/11/in-comparison-to-immorality-within.html
	Texto original em português sem vídeo de putaria no A Vez das Mulheres de Verdade: "Em comparação com a imoralidade dentro da castidade ou da família, o que é a pornografia?", http://avezdasmulheres.over-blog.com/2015/11/imoralidade-castidade-familia.html
	Texto original em português com vídeo de putaria no A Vez dos Homens que Prestam: "Em comparação com a imoralidade dentro da castidade ou da família, o que é a pornografia?", http://avezdoshomens.blogspot.com/2015/11/em-comparacao-com-imoralidade-dentro-da.html